May 23, 2024

30 thoughts on “Do Not Worry Loved Ones

  1. I guess the Philippines really pissed the U.S.A. off when they booted them out in the nineties and US decided to tighten up their policies about allowing Filipinos to come to US. They only have the politicians which they keep voting in office. If I am not mistaking back in sixties if Filipina was married to American and marriage was on file with Embassy and marriage was proved not to be sham to get green card, it was auto granted after interview by embassy staff. After my wife paid fixer to get her paper work and other stuff together, I had to take her to embassy just once for interview. I think the wait was longer than the interview. I do not think it cost that much back in sixties when exchange rate was 4 to 1 and I was only making 279.00 a month in Navy. My wife carried a green card for almost twenty years in states before she decided to get citizenship when she wanted to get a job after kids where in high school. So I say blame it on the knuckle heads in both governments who do not want to work for a living for problems of getting wives to states without all the hoops they have to jump through.

    1. They do make it difficult George. I guess they are trying to stop all their citizens that actually have enough money to make the trip, from deserting to the US. Of course they all would not do that, but a lot of them would. I’m glad that I never had to deal with the things like this. I met my wife already in Texas. It’s in this story in case you missed it.

  2. That’s still around $1200 a person. I’ve been back and forth nine times in the last three years (Cleveland to Calbayog) and can’t afford to go back again this year without winning the lottery, lol. First time I went in 2009 I paid around $850 and there was more baggage allowance. The other thing that kills me is the missed connections and resultant extra costs. I’ve been fighting for two years now with PAL over a missed flight due to thunderstorms in Houston that cost me an extra $2200 for two people. There’s at least one missed connection every trip. That ferry to Santo Nino running only once a day didn’t help either. Now we have the house in Bgy. Capoocan at least we don’t have to deal with that. The asawa is much happier in the city, too.
    Is there any word on the airport improvements that are supposed to take place? I saw something posted on Facebook but it was mostly in Tagalog so I had to rely on Google Translate to try and decipher it. Seems they were complaining about the fact that money had been set aside for improvements but nothing had been done yet. It would be nice to be able to catch a more convenient direct flight again.

    1. The sky high prices of airline tickets are the main reason why I really don’t mind the Space A flights, even with the delays and the hassles. In the long run, it turns out a lot cheaper for us and we usually get to see a few different places. Plus you get to meet people mostly in the same mindset as you.
      I never had a missed connection or had to worry about a ferry boat, so I can’t relate to that.
      I’ll try to find out some information on the airport, but I didn’t see the article you are talking about. If I see it, I’ll try to get someone here to translate it more fully. They probably spent the money on other things or deposited it in their personal bank accounts.
      I know that Calbayog will never be the tourist attraction that they ‘say’ they want it to be unless they get that airport up to 21st century standards.
      I hope they take care of that soon.

  3. Delta Air Lines
    Flight 172
    Departs: Sat Sep 22 7:50am
    Manila – Ninoy Aquino Intl (MNL) Arrives: Sat Sep 22 1:20pm
    Tokyo – Narita (NRT)
    Delta Air Lines
    Flight 156
    Departs: Sat Sep 22 4:10pm
    Tokyo – Narita (NRT) Arrives: Sat Sep 22 9:15am
    Seattle, WA – Seattle-Tacoma International (SEA)
    Alaska Airlines
    Flight 748
    Departs: Sat Sep 22 11:30am
    Seattle, WA – Seattle-Tacoma International (SEA) Arrives: Sat Sep 22 5:15pm
    St Louis, MO – Lambert-St. Louis International (STL)
    Returning Flight Information – Monday, October 22, 2012
    Delta Air Lines
    Flight 1268
    Departs: Mon Oct 22 10:15am
    St Louis, MO – Lambert-St. Louis International (STL) Arrives: Mon Oct 22 12:50pm
    Detroit, MI – Detroit Metropolitan Wayne County (DTW)
    Delta Air Lines
    Flight 275
    Departs: Mon Oct 22 3:20pm
    Detroit, MI – Detroit Metropolitan Wayne County (DTW) Arrives: Tue Oct 23 5:35pm
    Tokyo – Narita (NRT)
    Delta Air Lines
    Flight 173
    Departs: Tue Oct 23 6:55pm
    Tokyo – Narita (NRT) Arrives: Tue Oct 23 10:35pm
    Manila – Ninoy Aquino Intl (MNL)
    Ticket Price (CAD)

    Adult Fare: 2x$1217.00
    Adult Taxes & Surcharges: 2x$450.10

    Total: $3334.20 CAD

    Hurry, only 7 seats left at this price

    1. And just one more. I know that you probably won’t be going on this trip, but it’s nice to dream sometimes. Besides, you never know.

      Itinerary Details
      Date Flight Operated By Departure Arrival Stop Duration Aircraft Class
      23 Oct CX920 Cathay Pacific CEB 12:30 HKG 15:10 0 38:15 77W Economy Supersaver (Q)
      24 Oct CX806 Cathay Pacific HKG 11:50 ORD 13:45 0 77W Economy Supersaver (Q)
      20 Nov CX807 Cathay Pacific ORD 14:00 HKG 19:55 +1 0 31:45 77W Economy Supersaver (Q)
      22 Nov CX921 Cathay Pacific HKG 09:05 CEB 11:45 0 77W Economy Supersaver (Q)
      Fare Details
      Total fare Passenger Fare Taxes/Carrier Surcharges
      USD 1,219.44 Adult x 1 USD 825.00 USD 394.44

      So 1219.44 x 2 = 2438.88 – They are out there, probably some less expensive too. Depends on when you travel and sometimes at what time. This one has a long layover in Hong Kong.

  4. Rick. Also my wife’s co-worker just went to PI and she paid just under $900 round trip Seattle to Manila. Last Dec we paid $1100 rt Seattle to Manila, I found could get best price going right to the airline web site. China Airlines and Evergreen Air had the best deals.

    1. I knew there were prices lower than that $3600 that Rick quoted before. First time I came to the PI commercial the ticket prices were barely over $700 rt. Now I think that $1100 is the standard, with the occasional upper $800 and lower $900 during non-peak times. I never heard of Evergreen Air. I’m going to look them up and add them to my Travel Icon.

      1. I guess, from checking, that Evergreen is Eva Airways, at least for passengers. Evergreen seems to be for cargo only.

    2. I’m from ILLINIOS, costs me a bit more than Seattle. Flights from Manila to USA seem to be higher than USA to Manila I have seen too. I flew here Sept ’09 for $625.00

  5. Rick. First if you go for tourist visa she will not have to do the medical or any of that stuff. When my wife got hers I just told them I had been living in the PI for 5 years and every summer I would go to Alaska to fish for 3 months, then return. We had no business, but my then girlfriend had a bank account. I think what helped a lot. At her interview I was with her and when her name was called I went up with her. I did 90 percent of the talking. I talked about Alaska and how she would meet my family, just like you talking to old friend. I would think if you are in PI for 2 years and on a permanent visa that would show the PI is your home and you will return. Doing the immigrant visa isn’t illegal if you chose to return to the PI. It would take longer to get a visa. I helped a friend from Subic do the same thing and it took him 8 months. Before he did that he tried to get a tourist visa. He didn’t go with her and she was turned down.

    1. See Rick those are pretty good things to know, if you didn’t know them already. Even if you did, but not sure, it’s helps. I’m glad I never had to worry about anything like this. On the negative side though, if I did, I’d know more about it and could help more people. Of course then I might not have so many helpful people like Rick and Wayne leaving comments on my site.

    2. John there is nothing wrong doing that with going with immigrant visa as long as you leave the USA, if you choose not to finish paper work once you get there. There is a time line like the fiance visa. There is no penalty for changing your mind. Also I was going to pass on to Rick that I talked to a friend tonight who is on SSD and there is no problem with his wife working, he said he is the only one that can’t work.

      1. I’m at about the Max amount that can be paid out on SSD if you compare the SSD limits to IRS i get penalixed for filing single head of household and penalized for filing jointly, im right at the limit of income b4 taxes with IRS either way so if wife works im screwed, not just by SSD rules but IRS too

  6. My Parents still living, mom 84 dad 91, both suffer some medical problems beyond the facts that dad’s deaf and mom’s blind, but they still worry for me here, since I’m post stroke. The weather , is usually a scare for them hearing only the bad things in PH on the news, I tell them over and over, here in Calbayog we get no flooding and it has been over 70 years since any serious typhoon damages occurred here, as the outlying islands west off our coast seem to take the edges off any nasty weather that might reach us. Wish we could go visit them easy, we have no interest in living back in USA ever again. If my wife could get a passport, and then tourist visa easily , we have to face the fact that air fare on my fixed income from SSD limits the trip. Last check 2 round trip from manila was $3600.00 not counting the expenses to fly to Manila and probably stay in a hotel one night. I would dearly love my parents and remaining family in USA to meet my wife Flor

    1. Well Rick I sure wish I was rich so I could let you borrow the money, or if I was rich enough, just give it to you. It would be a worthwhile thing to do. I think you can get the round trip tickets for less than that though. Still the passport and visa thing would have to get done.

      1. UJ thanks for the thoughts but we will get it worked out. Just found out today mom and dad are going to sell their house and move into an assisted living location. They are having problems living alone so its better for them. I told them to spend my inheritance its ok, just be happy. I’m the only child and I joke to them about me only inheriting everything. But I did get upset they are getting a one bedroom place. I said where do Flor and I sleep. On the floor was the reply LOL. Oh well we are just plugging away to get the papers we need. I’m having my parents send me a report from their main doctor on their medical status, hopefully that will be helpful in getting Flor a tourist only visa the first time.

        1. Well if we do get rich soon, I may still get you the money. I hope that the paperwork works out. It can be tricky and lengthy in the PI you know.

        2. Rick about five years ago I got my wife a visitor visa to spend three months in the USA. I did this before we were married. I did it all on the internet, very easy, made appointment and everything. The most important thing is to convince them you both are going to return, in other words, the PI is your home. I tried the medical route they were not interested in that. I had been in the Subic area for five years when I did it. Another way to go which is easier, is an immigrant visa, but then you return instead of doing the paper for that visa. I helped a friend get a fiance visa and only took three months to get it. They came back before the three months were up. Hope this info might help.

          1. Well Wayne I think that should at least be of interest to Rick. I know I thought it was interesting reading. You might notice that it is now in a different type of font, at least it is on my end. I was trying to find a way to mark it so it’d be easier for me to find it again. If Rick decides to do this, he would still have to come up with the money for the plane trip and living expenses while there. It’s something to put in the old memory bank though.

          2. yeah i know i can set everything up online right till she needs medical,interview and the seminar that has to be done in manila, so how did you prove ph your home? we own no business i can’t im on SSD i work i lose my benefits if she works my benefits are troubled. so what did you do to prove ph your home to get the tourist visa, and we have already been married 2 years here in ph and i hate to lie to try an immigrant visa as we have never had or will have plans to move to usa

          3. You’re right about not lying Rick. Sooner or later it could come back to bite you and your wallet.
            I hope Wayne has a good answer for you.

  7. My Dad is still around, lost my Mom almost six years ago after a battle with cancer. I keep in touch with Dad, who has a “girlfriend” now and lives in Vegas. I call him about once a week via magicJack. It’s hard for me to use the phrase “girlfriend” for my soon-to-be 80-year-old father.

    Dad used to think the same thing as your parents whenever he heard about any calamity in the Philippines. Finally, after over three years of living in the PH with my beautiful asawa, I think he finally comprehends that most of what he might read or see on TV about the Philippines, doesn’t really impact us that much in Iloilo where we live.

    Besides, Dad’s too busy hanging out in the casinos playing the slots and bingo and flirting with cocktail waitresses in skimpy outfits to catch the news that much anyway.

    1. Dang Dave. I hope that if I live to be 80 and Lita passes on that I will be able to maintain a “girlfriend” too. Go Dad DeWall.
      My parents are not into casinos, but they sure do love to play Bingo.

  8. You ARE lucky to still have them! I’ve lost both my parents in the last 5 years, but they both lived long fulfilling lives and it was a good feeling to know that they too would always worry about me wherever I was located during and long after my Navy career. Think about a Filipino family for a second that may have a loved on in the USA….they would wake up daily wondering if their loved one was safe from tornadoes, volcanoes, hurricanes, floods, fires, mudslides, avalanches, earthquakes, roving raving maniacs with automatic weapons, and terrorists, and on, and on. When you put things in true perspective, the USA can be a rather dangerous place. Come to think of it, I just may feel safer in the RP!

    1. I guess I am lucky and I’m glad they are still around, but there is no need to worry. That being said, it’s okay if they worry though, just not so much. I worried them when we were returning here because I went too long after Korea before I contacted them. I’m going to try not to do that anymore. They didn’t seem to worry so much when I was stationed away from home while in the Air Force, but maybe they just got use to that. I was back there with them for quite a few years (17) before moving here, so maybe they thought all the moving was over.

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